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Visit Natural Bridge

This past weekend I had my annual belated Christmas gathering with my girlfriends from college. With all of the holiday festivities, it’s simply always been easier to get together in January.

On Friday night we discussed what to do with ourselves during the weekend and realized that the two of us that don’t live in Southwest Virginia had never visited a nearby landmark, although we had attended college just 30 minutes away. Natural Bridge is a just what it sounds like: a bridge created by nature, a rock formation spanning two cliff faces. Typically admission is $16, which is kinda pricey, but luckily our host had coupons for free admission.

The story of Natural Bridge is pretty cool. It was owned by Thomas Jefferson who bought it from King George III. During colonial times, Natural Bridge and Niagara Falls were the two most visited attractions in the US.

Every year I manage to forget the temperature difference between my mild North Carolina coastal plains and the mountains of Virginia so I was ill prepared to be out in 35 degree weather, but flipped up my collar and charged on anyway! A small mountain stream, called Cascade Creek, accompanied us to the bottom of the bridge. Since the temps were so frigid, we actually weren’t allowed to walk under the bridge as there were icicles hanging…and consequently falling as the day warmed slightly. I got a lot of amusement watching the icicles plummet, some of them hitting the pathway under the bridge. We took a few photos, admired the scenery, and then headed back to get warmed up.

It’s something I’ve talked about before: making a point to visit the places in your own backyard. I attended college in the area for 4 years and have visited at least once a year for the last 10 years and had always made excuses not to visit Natural Bridge. I’m glad I finally made the visit.

Where have you been meaning to visit that’s in your backyard?

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Goals for 2012

I’m pretty pleased with what I did in 2011 but that doesn’t mean I’m slowing down any! This won’t be a big year for travel or too much adventure but there are still plenty of things for me to do!

#8 Sell a piece of art (and realize my childhood dream, which is #28 on the 40/40 list)

#46 Scuba Diving: Continue practicing my newfound SCUBA skillz by going to the rock quarry at least once.

#52 Read the Greatest Books Ever Written (#7 on the 40/40 list): I mostly have really long ones left so out of the 10 remaining, I’m going to tackle 4 this year. As ONE of these things to read is the ENTIRE works of Shakespeare, I also want to see 2 plays performed live.

#65  Shout ‘Drinks Are on Me!’ in a Pub or Bar (#17 on the 40/40 list): I’m waiting to go my bar on a Tuesday afternoon at 3pm. I can swing buying drinks for 5 people.

#68 Save Someone’s Life (#8 on the 40/40 list): Donate 6 pints I’ve gone back and forth on this. I know they say donating blood can help save someone’s life but I guess I feel like I can’t be sure if MY blood actually saved somoene’s life. But most people seem to think this counts so let’s compromise. If I donate 5 gallons (which is 40 pints and the quickest I’d be able to accomplish that is 7 years), then can we say the likelihood of ONE of those 40 pints actually saved somebody’s life?

#84 Learn to Ski (#32 on the 40/40 list): As a hold over from the original list I had in high school, it’s high time I did something about this one.

#93.5 Get Your Name in the Ring of Honor:  I completed this goal in 2011 but I’ll have my plate unveiling this year.

Goals from my 40 Before I’m 40 List:

#1 Be Able to Do a Pull Up

#11 Learn to Rock Climb: Already have the Groupon in hand to make this happen!

#18 Watch the Top 1,001 Films: Watch 100 this year

#25 Drink All the Beers on the GQ List: Drink 20

#35 Visit all of the NC Breweries: Visit 10 this year

#36 Learn How to Ballroom Dance: Have the Groupon in hand to do this one as well! I think I’m going to try Salsa!

#37 Start Using Coupons

#38 See a Movie in a Drive-In Movie Theater: I’m putting a stipulation on this one. If they simply insist on showing family movies I’m not interested in, I’m not going to force myself to sit through some animated drivel just to check this one off. I think it would be super fantastic if they showed something like Star Wars. Could you imagine seeing that outside at a drive in movie theater? You’d really feel like you were in space!

From the Sports List:

#18 Attend a rugby game (and learn the rules): There are actually some local teams

#19 Attend a cricket game (and learn the rules): There’s actually a local league!

#24 Attend the Kentucky Derby: There is SOME talk about going this year with my good friend Jessica so hopefully this is happening this year.

Also, not officially on any lists but I’m hoping they do the “Over the Edge” event this year so that I can repel down the side of a building and I have also never been to a tea room and I want to try that out.

Think that’s enough? What’s on YOUR goals for 2012?

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Final Results 2011

This has been quite the year, having very little to do with the list. But despite things going on in my personal life, I still managed to get some things done on the 101 Things to Do Before You Die list. May not have been as exciting as 2010 but still managed to tick things off the list!

#1 Write a Novel:  Big FAIL on the National Novel Writing Month again. I feel like I keep coming up with excuses but seriously I just had WAY too much going on in November. I said this last year but maybe I just need to pick another month.

#11 Visit Every State:  Original goal was to go to Pennsylvania but I’m not going to complain about checking Hawaii off the list instead!

#16 Get into the Guinness World Book of Records: I haven’t donated blood all year so epic fail on that. HOWEVER…AANR didn’t try to break 2010′s Skinny Dip Record, so that still stands!

#46 Scuba Diving/#87 Conquer Your Fear:  COMPLETED! (Well, at least the SCUBA diving portion. Time will tell about whether I’ve conquered my fear of water)

#52 Read the Greatest Books Ever Written: The only one I read this year was The Master and Margarita. I spent all of my time working on the Global Challenge. But I also read Fantastic Mr. Fox, Rabbit, Run, Mildred Pierce, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, and the latest Sookie book. 13 books total for the year. Not my best effort but better than most, I guess!

#52.1 Shakespeare Reading Challenge: Originally I was going to attempt to actually see some plays performed but my schedule never worked out. I really haven’t put any energy into this one :(

#52.2 Global Reading Challenge: COMPLETED! I read Winesburg, Ohio (North America), Evil Angels (Australiasia), The Good Earth (Asia), Out of Africa (Africa), The Master and Margarita (Europe), The Road (Future) and Love in the Time in Cholera (South America).

#89 Learn to Cook:  COMPLETED! (Sorry, I haven’t posted about my last 5 recipes yet. I’ll do that in the next couple of weeks).

#93.5 Get Your Name in the Ring of Honor:  COMPLETED! Planning on hosting my plate party in 2012.

#105 Krispy Kreme Challenge: COMPLETED!  Warrior Dash: COMPLETED!

Goals from my 40 Before I’m 40 List:

#6 Start Saving for Retirement: COMPLETED!

#19 Watch AFI’s 100 Best Films: COMPLETED!

#20 Sing Karaoke: COMPLETED!

#28  Sell a piece of art (and realize my childhood dream, which is #8 on the 101 list): FAIL!

#38 See a Movie in a Drive-In Movie Theater: Anytime I thought about it and had a free weekend, they weren’t showing anything I wanted to see. Pushed off to 2012.

#39 Lose 20 Pounds: COMPLETED!

Not on the list for this year’s goals but still to be noted:

On the official list but not planned at the beginning of the year:

  • #7: Eat Exotic Foods: I ate Haggis at the Grandfather Mountain Highland Games and bugs at BugFest
  • #98: Go on a Demonstration: COMPLETED!
  • #22: Go up in a Hot Air Balloon: COMPLETED!

So in 2011 I completed 11 of my goals, 4 of which are from the original 101 things to do before you die list, which brings the total to 38 things completely done and 13 things partially done. Not too shabby if I do say so myself. And I’m thinking 2012 is going to be even better!

So how did you do with your goals for 2011?  What do you have planned for 2012?

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Thing to Do #51: Learn a New Language

Living in North Carolina (really, America in general, for that matter), the language that would make the most sense to learn would be Spanish.  The states with the highest percentage increases in Hispanic population between July 1, 2007, and July 1, 2008 were SC and NC;  South Carolina’s increase was 7.7% and North Carolina’s was 7.4%.  (There are 16 states with at least a half-million Hispanic residents–Arizona, California, Colorado, Florida, Georgia, Illinois, Massachusetts, Nevada, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, Pennsylvania, Texas, Virginia, and Washington).

I took four years of Spanish in High School and one more year in college but I know little more than my numbers and how to say Hola.  I’m just not of those people that learn languages easily, but it could be argued that I also need to apply myself a little bit.  I took one year of German in college, being an Art History major and German being the “language of art history” (bet you didn’t know that-see? you learn something every day!).  I actually liked German a lot more than Spanish and I picked it up more quickly.  Unfortunately that’s now almost 10 years ago and if you don’t use it, you lose it.  I can’t even remember how to count to 10, although I do remember this line: Ich studiere Kunstgeschichte (I study art history).

Miranda turned me on to this little language program, and I think I may have to do some of these courses.  Its called Steps; the aim is for you to complete a course in 12 weeks, followed by an ‘end of course’ assessment to see how well you’ve done. You’ll even get a BBC certificate! You can choose from six different courses in four languages: French Steps, Ma France, Spanish Steps, Mi Vida Loca, German Steps and Italian Steps.

I want to do this, if anything for the little certificate at the end.  (Do you think I could put it on my resume?)  Its a good way to get back into German, and now that I’m older, perhaps I could get the energy to really apply myself and learn the language.  It really isn’t a practical language around here, but if I like it, it’ll be easier to learn!

After I’ve done Steps, maybe I can use one of the lanugage courses Steve posted about on his blog. Or, even better, my local library offers a free language course through Tell Me More-check to see if your library offers this too and by just entering your library card number, you could have free access to the same language course the US Military uses.

What language courses have you tried? Which ones worked? How many bilingual people we have out there?

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10 Best Places to Spend Halloween

I love Halloween. I talked about how much I enjoyed it in this post from last year. Because of some things going on in my life right now, I won’t really be able to celebrate it this year like I have in the past and this will be the first year in six years that I didn’t dress up for Halloween. I did go see Ghostbusters on the big screen a couple of weeks ago, which was AWESOME! and I did something last night that has always been on my list of things to do before I die that was kinda Halloween-y (look for that write up in a coming post) but I’ve missed not decorating my house and going to Halloween parties. Oh well. There’s always next year. In the meantime, I thought at least my blog could get into the spirit with these ten great destinations for a Halloween vacation:

1. San Francisco. This is a city that loves to play and to dress up in costumes. It is no wonder that there are plenty of things to do here for Halloween. Options range from kid-friendly events like trick-or-treating at the zoo to decidedly adults-only events like the annual Exotic Erotic Ball and Adult Entertainment Expo. There are numerous other costume and candy events at local attractions, hotels and clubs.

2. New York City. This is another terrific destination city for people who want to check out cool local Halloween events. The place to be for the big Halloween party is Greenwich Village. Here you’ll find an amazing costumed parade and lots of live music. You will also find a crowd because nearly two million people typically come out for this big event. You may have thought New Year’s Eve was the time to head to New York City (and it is) but don’t underestimate how amazing the city is at Halloween.

3. Transylvania, Romania. Who doesn’t think about characters like vampires when Halloween rolls around? What better place to indulge in that historical fantasy than in Translyvania? The city lives up to its name with lots of cool Halloween events that play off of the Dracula theme. The best place to be is Bran’s Castle (also known as Dracula’s Castle), which is in the creepy Carpathian Mountains. A huge Halloween event takes place here throughout the week combining costumed fun with historic tours. (If I was ever going to visit Transylvania, this would definitely be the time to do it!)

4. Venice, Italy. This was recently named one of the top five Halloween destinations in Europe. That is because it has a little bit of everything that you could want for a Halloween vacation. There’s a local ghost tour through an eerie historic landscape. There are legends about the terror of sea monsters. And this is a destination that a lot of people have always longed to visit.

5. Anoka, Minnesota. This isn’t a destination that a lot of people know about but it’s one that does come alive around Halloween. That’s because this little Midwest town has decided to make its claim to fame by becoming the Halloween Capital of the World. The entire month of October is filled with Halloween related events including Halloween food festivals, parades and a big jack-o-lantern contest.

6. Chicago, Illinois. A more urban Midwest destination that also features great Halloween options for visitors is Chicago. Check out the events at Navy Pier, which include a haunted house and a “carnival of curiosities”. Check out the haunted ships, the Six Flags Great America Halloween celebration and the pumpkin patches around the city. Check it all out!

7. Bisbee, Arizona. This small historic town is home to hotels that are reported to be haunted. It’s a charming little getaway with a bit of a spooky side to it. Explore old copper mines, take a day trip to the historic Old West town of Tombstone and go pumpkin picking at nearby farms. This vacation is best for adults looking for a romantic little retreat for Halloween although there are kid-friendly activities in the region.

8. Savannah, Georgia. Do you want to do something really creepy for Halloween? Take a trip to Savannah, a city that is filled with cemeteries and has been reported to be home to numerous ghosts and spirits. They play off of this at Halloween and provide lots of spooky events for people of all ages. Carriage tours, a Creepy Pub Crawl, a walking tour of haunted areas, and a pirate-themed restaurant are all popular options for Savannah’s Halloween visitors. (When we visited Savannah in January, there WERE a lot of ghost stories)

9. Norcross, Georgia. One of the most popular things to do during the Halloween season is to visit a fictional haunted house, the kind of place that is designed to frighten you in a fun way. Netherworld Haunted House in Norcross, Georgia has been ranked the number one haunted house in the United States. That makes it a destination worth checking out. (I’m a big scaredy cat and can’t watch horror movies with all the lights on in the middle of the day. Last year I finally went to a local haunted house and buried my face in my hands the whole way through. I’m not sure I could make it through something like this).

10. Orlando, Florida. This Disneyworld destination is popular at all times of the year but it comes alive with fun family-friendly events. A top pick is Halloween Horror Nights at Universal Studios.

So what do YOU do for Halloween? Ever been to any of these places to celebrate Halloween? Do you like horror movies and haunted houses or are you as big of a scaredy cat as I am?

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Third Quarter Results 2011

I have to admit, it’s really gratifying to look back on where I started with this list and see how much I’ve accomplished. When people ask me “What’s next on your list?’ and they expect some big adventure, I have to admit that I’m really mostly just down to travel at this point (by and large). But, never fear, I’m always adding new adventures to the list-I’ll never run out of things to do!

#1 Write a Novel:  Nada, yet. Big plans to do the National Novel Writing Month in November.

#11 Visit Every State:  Managed to cross Hawaii off the list.

#16 Get into the Guinness World Book of Records: I haven’t donated blood all year so epic fail on that. Plus, I bought the Record Book for last year because I thought I’d be in it for the Skinny Dip but it wasn’t included. It doesn’t mean I’m not in it, it just means the Skinny Dip record is in the BIG official books that Libraries get, not the fun little one available for simple people like me. :(

#46 Scuba Diving/#87 Conquer Your Fear:  COMPLETED! (Well, at least the SCUBA diving portion. Time will tell about whether I’ve conquered my fear of water)

#52 Read the Greatest Books Ever Written: I spent all summer on The Master and Margarita but I’ve mostly been working on the Global Challenge. I’ve also read Fantastic Mr. Fox, Rabbit, Run, Mildred Pierce, and the latest Sookie book. I’m really not doing very well with reading this year compared to my last few years.

#52.1 Shakespeare Reading Challenge: Originally I was going to attempt to actually see some plays performed but my scheduled never worked out. I really haven’t put any energy into this one :(

#52.2 Global Reading Challenge: So far I’ve read Winesburg, Ohio (North America), Evil Angels (Australiasia), The Good Earth (Asia), Out of Africa (Africa), The Master and Margarita (Europe), and The Road (Future). All that’s left is Love in the Time in Cholera (South America), which I’m currently reading.

#89 Learn to Cook:  I was working toward 52 recipes this year and I’m currently up to 47.

#93.5 Get Your Name in the Ring of Honor:  COMPLETED this one too! We’re planning the “plate party” as we speak.

#105 Krispy Kreme Challenge: COMPLETED!  Warrior Dash: COMPLETED!

Goals from my 40 Before I’m 40 List:

#6 Start Saving for Retirement: COMPLETED!

#19 Watch AFI’s 100 Best Films: I only have Shane and Intolerance left.

#20 Sing Karaoke: COMPLETED!

#28  Sell a piece of art (and realize my childhood dream, which is #8 on the 101 list): Nada, so far.

#38 See a Movie in a Drive-In Movie Theater: I’ve been making excuses on this one. Anytime I’ve been free, the Drive-In movie theater closest to us wasn’t showing something I wanted to see. Hopefully the stars will align and I’ll get both a free weekend and a good movie.

#39 Lose 20 Pounds: COMPLETED!

Not on the list for this year’s goals but I also joined the Bone Marrow Registry, so between that and donating blood, I’m working on #68 Save Someone’s Life. I visited Savannah and I saw UNC play (and win) in the NCAA tournament. We went to a Ren Faire and I also got a star named after me, which could fulfill #94 Get Something Named After Me (I’m still holding out hope for a street or a building or something.) Also, while SCUBA diving in Hawaii, I saw a Sea Turtle in the wild; that’s not on the “official” list but still cool.

We went to the VA Derby where I was in the top 10 finalists for the hat competition. I ate Haggis at the Grandfather Mountain Highland Games and bugs at BugFest (both part of #7 on the 101 list). I went on a demonstration (#98), Hot Air Ballooning! (#22 on the 101 list) and visited the Biltmore Estate.

So how are you doing with your goals for 2011?  Only 3 more months until 2012!

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Thing to Do #22: Go Up in a Hot Air Balloon

COMPLETED!

Thanks to a Groupon, we were able to book a flight in a Hot Air Balloon in Asheville, NC for half price. I scheduled this months ago and thought Labor Day in the mountains was the way to spend a long weekend.

We had to get up super early to meet the group by 6am. There were a good number of other people going up with us; in our balloon there were 8 total and a pilot. The other balloon was smaller, only holding 4 people and a pilot.

There’s a lot more to ballooning that I ever could have imagined! We made our way to a gas station with the pilot continuously checking technical looking equipment and gadgets and calling into aviation centers to get information about the weather, wind, cloud cover, etc. At the gas station they released two helium balloons and after staring at these for a few minutes, decided on a launch site, a church, a few miles away. Two more helium balloons were released but, based on the information of watching these two, it was decided this was not a good launch site. So we loaded up and headed to an alternative launch site, another church.

I guess I had never considered the technical aspects of hot air ballooning; I figured we’d just blow it up and we’d be off!

It took an hour to get the balloon unloaded and filled with air. The men in the group were asked to help and Alex got to assist in holding up the “envelope” (the balloon) opening while a motorized fan began to fill it with air.

Filling up the hot air balloon

After it was rather full, a few bursts of hot air made the balloon begin to rise and the basket, which had been laid on its side during this process, was righted.

Hot air into the envelope

They began filling up our balloon a good 20 minutes before they even started working on the second, smaller balloon and before ours was even done, our sister balloon was already in the air.

We were warned that the ride may take as little as 25 minutes but most take around 45 minutes and that our max altitude would be around 1,500 – 2,000 feet. We took flight, slowly climbing into the air at 500 feet a minute. We managed to hit 3,000 feet in altitude, much to the delight of our pilot.

I don’t know what I expected but I guess I’ve built up a tolerance to any kind of excitement. Perhaps I’m a bit of an adrenaline junkie by this point. While the flight was certainly serene, there really wasn’t much to it. Because there was no wind, we really didn’t go anywhere; we could always see our launch site. You feel like you are floating and at no point did I even really feel like we were very high up in the air.

We spent the first 20 minutes getting to max altitude and then spent the next 45 minutes trying to find a place to land. While the pilot began the landing process, we took in the scenery.

We were in a valley with mostly residential areas; our first landing spot led us near a trailer park. Although you would think a balloon ride would be very quiet, the blowers for the hot air are actually quite loud. People came out of their houses to figure out what the noise was and, at least for two small children in their pajamas, I’m sure we made their day as we flew slowly just over their front porch.

Alas, something was wrong with this particular landing attempt and the pilot had to abort and begin again. This time we aimed for another backyard and landed gently with very little bump or noise. The ground crew, who the pilot had been talking to incessantly for the past 45 minutes in trying to figure out a landing site, were instantly on board to act as ballast. After some discussion with the home owners, the van and the trailer were backed into the yard and the team began the process of packing things up.

The whole process had taken five hours with the flight taking just over an hour. After we returned, we celebrated with a champagne toast and were given “flight certificates.” While the flight was certainly nice and I’m glad I said I’ve done it, I guess I expected something a little different. Maybe we should put jet packs on the basket so we can zoom around?

Hot Air Balloon Ride!

They attached a video camera to the outside of the balloon which will hopefully be an elapsed time video of our flight. When (if) this is posted, I’ll be sure to pass it along here.

Not having anything to do with going up in a Hot Air Balloon, I also finally made it to the Biltmore Estate after having lived in North Carolina all my life.

Jessica at the Biltmore Estate

It was nice but after hearing about it all your life, either there was no way it could live up to expectations or I had already heard about it in so much detail, there were few surprises. I did enjoy seeing the basement with all the laundry rooms, pantries and various other rooms that were required for the running of such a large estate.

So…good weekend all in all. Sometimes it’s just good to do things so that you can know for yourself and even if they didn’t meet your expectations, it’s still cool to say that you did it.

Have you ever been in a hot air balloon? What did you think? Ever been to the Biltmore Estate? Are you as gaga over it as everyone else seems to be?

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Things to Do in Raleigh

I’ve talked in the past about how much I love where I live. So when I had a close friend, Jes, visit back in May, I was more than happy to show her around town. We were faced with a four day weekend and it was my responsibility to create an itinerary for her visit. There’s only so much you can do in four days but I felt that I gave her a pretty good taste of Raleigh. I thought maybe I would share in case you found yourself here and wanted to get some suggestions of where to go and what to do.

Activities

Here in Raleigh, we’re 2 hours from the beach and 3 hours from the mountains so if that’s your thing, both are great. However, if you want to stay in town, there are plenty of lakes for recreation. Lydia and Steve have a boat and on the Saturday Jes was in town, we went out on Jordan Lake. As soon as we put in, I heard a strange squawk and looked to see what bird made the noise. I immediately spotted a Bald Eagle and pointed him out to the rest of the group. I got out the binoculars and watched him for awhile perched upon a dead tree. Even if I had seen one before, it’s still an impressive sight to behold.

We enjoyed ourselves on the lake for a few hours but then unfortunately had boat problems and had to call for a tow. Jes got burned while we waited for the tow but we still had a great day.

If you don’t have access to a friend’s boat, there are always plenty of accessible sandy beaches for swimming and camping at our local lakes: Jordan, Falls, and Kerr.

Sports

Depending on the time of year you visit, maybe you should check out the Carolina Mudcats. I grew up watching this minor league baseball team and it’s a fun time to be had. Muddy the Mudcat is the best mascot in all of sports and it’s an inexpensive way to spend your time with $11 box seat tickets and Thirsty Thursday $2 beers.

Me and Jes at Mudcats game

The Durham Bulls are obviously pretty well known and they’re great too. But it’s a different atmosphere over there: a little more corporate and a little more cosmopolitan. The Carolina Mudcats tend to attract more families and are seemingly just a little more laid back.

If you find yourself here during the winter months, try the Carolina Hurricanes. For an NHL team, you can still get tickets for around $30.

Food

You can’t visit NC without having pork barbecue. There are places in Raleigh that are good. I’m personally a fan of Cooper’s Barbecue and The Pit has been on the Food Network numerous times. But for my money, the best barbecue is Parker’s which is actually in Wilson, NC, about an hour east of Raleigh. We made our way here on Sunday just after the Church crowd and I think Jes was quite taken with both the facility and the servers. One can imagine not much has changed since 1946; the wood chairs and formica tables are attended by a male-only wait staff that wear jeans, white short sleeve button ups with long waist aprons and paper hats. When I was teen, these boys were complete eye candy as they hustled back and forth with their huge serving trays heaped with plates but I think they must hire them younger than they used to…;)

On Monday I took Jes down to a great place to eat ice cream at my fave place Sunni Sky’s. This is technically not in Raleigh either but in a small town called Angier, about 45 minutes southeast of Raleigh. But so worth the drive. All the ice cream is homemade and you can taste the difference. Their best known flavor is called “Cold Sweat” which is very HOT ice cream that has been featured nationally on Good Morning America and the Food Network. They are very generous with their free samples and compared to the likes of Baskin Robbins, you get a lot of ice cream for not a lot of price. My fave is Strawberry Cheesecake that has huge pieces of strawberry and chunks of cheesecake.

Nightlife

I’ve spoken ad naseum about Flying Saucer so I won’t talk much more about my beloved beer pub but it was obviously a priority to take Jes there and we managed to, twice. On Friday night we parked back at Flying Saucer and took the R Line, which is a free downtown bus, to Solas bar, which has a great patio area (it’s also has a unique dance floor as it’s made of glass and girls in little short skirts tend to dance, given the diners below a bit of a show). Unfortunately, although I had made reservations, they neglected to tell me a private party was scheduled so we altered our plans to stay in the “Glenwood South” area and ate at Armadillo Grill (which has the distinction of being where Alex and I had our first date).

After dinner we took the R Line back to Flying Saucer and the “Warehouse” district for a quick drink with Alex before heading down the block to Legend’s for the Drag Show. I had been once before but Jes had never been to a drag show and I thought it was wonderful so we made sure to include it in the itinerary. Plus, Legend’s is one of the best dance clubs in Raleigh and one of the nicest, so if you are interested in a great place to dance, this is a good bet.

Something I only recently discovered that I wish I had taken Jes to when she was here was the Boylan Bridge Brew Pub. Hands down, it grants the best view of downtown Raleigh than any other place you could go. There is dining inside but with a large patio and this view, why would you want to?

Raleigh as seen from the patio of Boylan Bridge Brew Pub

This is obviously not a complete list of all the things you could do in Raleigh but I thought we got a lot done in our short four days, especially mixing in doing nothing all day Sunday but watch movies.

What do you love about your town? What’s your fave thing to do or place to eat?

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Betting on a Big, Pink Hat

On the 101 Things to Do Before You Die list is Thing to Do #39: Go to the Races. I originally crossed off this item back in January 2007 and then enjoyed doing it again when we went to the Virginia Derby in 2009. We weren’t able to go back last year but made it a priority to get there this year.

This year the races didn’t start until 5:00pm, probably done to beat the heat of the day. It meant we didn’t have to get on the road as early and it was more pleasant seeing the races under the lights of the track rather than under the burning sun, but it also meant that we didn’t get home until 1AM.

We got a table all to ourselves just as we did in 2009 with all of the trappings: an all you can eat buffet of Southern cuisine (barbecue, fried chicken, fried shrimp, slaw, baked beans, hush puppies, banana pudding, and sweet tea) and drink tickets. I do have to say that I’m glad of my Flying Saucer beer challenge for finally allowing me to be the kind of gal that can drink beer out of red solo cups like everyone else, rather than being the one chick that has to drink a vodka cocktail. It makes life easier…and cheaper.

As far as the races were concerned, I managed to break even for the day which I always consider winning when it comes to gambling. If I managed a bit of entertainment for free, then I feel I came out on top. That, and I never expect to win so when I do, it’s that much better.

While others may have been there for the races, I was there for the hats. Back at Christmas, I bought Lydia and myself the most wonderful Derby hats ever for the express purpose of wearing them to this event. There were seven different hat competitions and Lydia and I decided to enter the “Southern Belle” Hat competition. After the fifth race we were instructed to make our way down to the Winner’s Circle for judging.

Two of the Southern Belles

With 50 or so other ladies, Lydia and I gathered around the judges, two girls and a guy. They would choose 10 finalists that would then be announced and shown on the track’s “jumbotrons” and 3 winners would be chosen from these 10. The judges began pointing to girls, choosing their finalists “Green hat. Blue hat.” etc. For their fourth choice, they shouted “Pink hat with bow!” pointing out Lydia. After some jumping and cheering, Lydia went down to the front with the other finalists.

Increasingly the mob of women began crushing towards the judges, probably with the hope of getting in front of them and giving them a better view of their hats. I stayed near the back, not enjoying pushing, elbowing throngs. After a bit, there was only one slot left and the two female judges, clearly having difficulty deciding, asked the man to choose. With no hesitation he pointed at me and said “Pink hat in back!” and in my excitement I stepped on the toes of the girl beside me. Shouting an apology, I ran down to where Lydia was and we hurried up the steps to the stage.

After a few photographs, a woman came up to us and immediately set about telling us what was coming next. I felt like I was in a pageant. “Alright ladies, when the camera turns to you, I want to see Smiles! Attitude! Waving! You’re our Southern Belles and we need to see lots of personality!”

VA Derby 2011 Southern Belles

And then we were up on the jumbotrons, smiling and waving like we were beauty queens. I tried not to look at the screens and instead Lydia and I just kept laughing. The finalists were introduced and then they announced the winners, all three of which had “the complete package,” having dressed from head to toe in a carefully chosen ensemble.

For all of the VA Derby Hat Contest participants, here is their Facebook album: http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=118618478216913#!/media/set/?set=a.10150246252266892.327493.144100551891&type=1 (We’re about photo 90)

Lydia and I raced back to the boys to see if they had seen us up on the screens (I was convinced they had missed the whole thing by going to the bathroom or something) but they had seen us and said that the cameras had been pretty much on Lydia and myself the whole time. We may not have won, but you would have thought we had by the way we were acting. I had just really wanted to wear a big hat but this was just icing on the cake.

We had a lot of fun, enjoyed ourselves, didn’t lose too much money, and got to wear big hats. What more could you ask of a day at the races?

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Thing to Do #7: Eat…Haggis

This post is about a lot more than just eating Haggis but for the purposes of my 101 Things to Do Before You Die list, I did actually check off something on my #7: Eat Exotic Foods. But more on that in a bit.

Here in North Carolina the Grandfather Mountain Highland Games are held each year in July.  There are various claims to who has the largest Scottish Highland Games but suffice to say that at 50,000 attendees, GMHG is one of the largest in the world (the largest games in Scotland “only” has about 20,000 attendees).

Alex and I, along with our friends Steve and Lydia, decided to attend this year’s games with Steve actually choosing to compete in the wrestling competition. Alex’s family owns a mountain house on a private mountain at which we were able to stay. The first day we were there, we went hiking on one of the trails on the mountain that led to some waterfalls. A year to almost the day, we again went skinny dipping, although this time it wasn’t for a world record. (By the way, they didn’t hold a Skinny Dipping event this year so our record from last year still stands!)

"The Blue Hole"

We arrived early the day of the Highland Games to make sure Steve would be registered to participate. All competitors must wear a kilt so Steve set about purchasing one at the many vendors selling all things Scottish. As Steve is Hungarian, he wasn’t particularly interested in finding a certain family’s tartan. He settled on one from the Carrot district in Ireland. Later in the day, Alex followed suit and bought one as well, although it was a “sport kilt” which just velcroes on as opposed to the very authentic kilt Steve had purchased (Outside of the major price difference-let’s say it was a car payment’s worth-Steve’s kilt was heavy-duty wool and used over 8 yards of fabric. The pleats go on for days and it’s a bit of a bear to get in and out of.) And before you think this strange, I’d estimate that about 75% of all men at the Highland Games were wearing kilts.

The boys hanging out in Downtown Boone

While we waited for the wrestling event start, we took in all the other sights. There were girls in Scottish dancing competitions and various other athletic events happening around the infield, like the stone toss and the sheaf toss. Tents around the infield represented many of the Scottish clans and bagpipes continuously played. (When we first arrived, Lydia and I were both enamored by the bagpipes. Six hours later it was all we could do to get away from the constant noise.)

Bagpipes playing with Grandfather Mountain in the background

At the appointed time, Steve made his way to the infield for the wrestling competition. Steve was somewhat older than many of the other competitors and although he had wrestled for many years, he had not done this particular style of wrestling. Apparently when he and Alex had “practiced” the night before, their strategy wasn’t appropriate for Scottish wrestling and Steve first faced a 4-time All-American Wrestler who had 6 inches, 20 pounds, and 10 fewer years on Steve. Steve lost. But, the guy that put him out of the competition went on to win, so there’s that. And at the end of the day, he had the guts to get into the ring of competition when many others wouldn’t and we’re proud of him for that.

After wrestling was done, we went seeking food and were happy to find Scottish cuisine in the way of meat pies, bridies, haggis, and various breads and pasties. I liked the bridie, the meat pie was ok, and the haggis…had a very strong flavor. It was ok, mostly tasted like liver mush or something like that. I didn’t mind it but a couple of bites sated my appetite.

Haggis

The athletic event I most wanted to watch was the caber toss and finally around 1pm they begun this competition. It was amazing to see these huge dudes lift up the equivalent of a telephone pole and heave it, trying to flip it over. We never saw anyone manage to flip it over but it was still fun to watch.

Caber toss

Even in the mountains it was quite warm and after hours in the baking sun, we took our leave of the Games. That evening we went into Downtown Boone, a very fun little mountain town I’ve enjoyed visiting in the past, and the boys enjoyed wearing their kilts around town.

So have you tried haggis before? Attended a similar cultural event with competitions and the like?

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