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2013 First Quarter Report

Ok, so based on the list of Goals for 2013, I’ve gotten a good bit of work done in the first 3 months of the year. Always room for improvement but not too shabby!

#2 Swim with Whales: Ok, well…this was a fail but it WAS an attempt so I’m counting it as done for this year. Something to try again next year.

#8 Sell a piece of art (and realize my childhood dream, which is #28 on the 40/40 list): Nothing yet.

#46 Scuba Diving: Continue practicing my SCUBA skills by going at least once this summer. Gonna use my new GoPro to capture the excitement that is the murky depths of the rock quarry.

#52 Read the Greatest Books Ever Written (#7 on the 40/40 list): Supposed to be working on at least 2 this year. Nada so far.

#65  Shout ‘Drinks Are on Me!’ in a Pub or Bar (#17 on the 40/40 list): Not yet.

#84 Learn to Ski (#32 on the 40/40 list): Went in January and had a blast.

Goals from my 40 Before I’m 40 List:

#1 Be Able to Do a Pull Up: Very much working on it. I can lift 100 pounds so far. About 35 pounds to go.

#11 Learn to Rock Climb: Went rock climbing on Pilot Mountain for “real” rock climbing a week ago. That’s where the photo above comes from. Post to come.

#12 Take a Cooking Class: Nothing yet.

#18 Watch the  Top 250 IMDB List/Watch All of the Oscar Best Picture Winners: Nothing yet.

#25 Drink All the Beers on the GQ List: Nothing yet.

#31  Learn to swim (#87 on the 101 list: Conquer Your Fear): COMPLETED!

#35 Visit all of the NC Breweries: The original goal was to visit 7 this year. I’ve visited Trophy Brewing and Raleigh Brewing thus far.

#36 Learn How to Ballroom Dance: Nada yet.

From the Sports List:

#18 Attend a rugby game (and learn the rules): Nope

#19 Attend a cricket game (and learn the rules): Nope

Things not on an official list but still want to try:

Think that’s enough? What’s on YOUR goals for 2013?

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Goals for 2013

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In looking at my list, so many things that are left involve travel. Well, I hope to get out and visit at least one new country this year but otherwise I’m going to have to find things a bit closer by to do.

#2 Swim with Whales: Technically I wouldn’t be swimming with whales but I do plan to go on a whale watching trip out of Virginia Beach in February. Hope to see a humpback on its migratory path!

#8 Sell a piece of art (and realize my childhood dream, which is #28 on the 40/40 list)

#46 Scuba Diving: Continue practicing my SCUBA skills by going at least once. Gonna use my new GoPro to capture the excitement that is the murky depths of the rock quarry.

#52 Read the Greatest Books Ever Written (#7 on the 40/40 list): I didn’t do ANY of these last year! I mostly have really long ones left so out of the 10 remaining, I’m going to tackle 2 this year. As ONE of these things to read is the ENTIRE works of Shakespeare, I also want to see 2 plays performed live.

#65  Shout ‘Drinks Are on Me!’ in a Pub or Bar (#17 on the 40/40 list): I’m waiting to go my bar on a Tuesday afternoon at 3pm. I can swing buying drinks for 5 people.

#84 Learn to Ski (#32 on the 40/40 list): I went last year but I take “learning” to mean something you do multiple times in an effort to improve. So I’m going again.

Goals from my 40 Before I’m 40 List:

#1 Be Able to Do a Pull Up: I started working seriously on this late 2012. I’m up to lifting about 90 pounds so I only have 50 more to go.

#11 Learn to Rock Climb: Continue with going to the indoor rock climbing wall but I’ve also scheduled a trip to go to Pilot Mountain for “real” rock climbing.

#12 Take a Cooking Class: I want to sign up for a Sushi making class.

#18 Watch the  Top 250 IMDB List/Watch All of the Oscar Best Picture Winners: Watch 25 this year

#25 Drink All the Beers on the GQ List: Drink 10

#31  Learn to swim: I’ve signed up for beginner lessons. No more doggie paddling for me!

#35 Visit all of the NC Breweries: I went to 13 last year but admittedly I’ve now visited all the ones near me. Travel is now required to visit the rest. Visit 7 this year

#36 Learn How to Ballroom Dance: I went for one lesson but I think I’m going to try to attend one of the dance studio’s “dance socials” to practice

From the Sports List:

#18 Attend a rugby game (and learn the rules): There are actually some local teams

#19 Attend a cricket game (and learn the rules): There’s actually a local league!

Things not on an official list but still want to try:

Think that’s enough? What’s on YOUR goals for 2013?

Over the edge

2012 Fourth Quarter Report

Although I felt like I didn’t do that much in 2012, I really have made good progress on my original list. There’s never been a year where I accomplished every single goal I laid out for myself but that’s no bother because inevitably I also manage to do lots of things NOT on the list too!

My Goals for 2012:

#8 Sell a piece of art (and realize my childhood dream, which is #28 on the 40/40 list): Dang. Another year where I didn’t do this. Shame on me.

#46 Scuba Diving: COMPLETED! Went to the Rock Quarry in July to keep up with my SCUBA skillz. Was relieved and proud to say that I actually remembered how to do it. As long as I keep going regularly, hopefully I won’t forget.

#52 Read the Greatest Books Ever Written (#7 on the 40/40 list): I’m failing at reading on the list, but I’ve been tearing it up in regard to books I want to read. Which, after years of reading books I’m supposed to read, has been really nice. Total for the year includes: the newest Sookie book, Dexter is Delicious, The Hunger Games, The Help, The Children of Men, Fight Club, Abraham Lincoln: Vampire Hunter, Catching Fire, Mockingjay, Wicked, Less Than Zero, and Living with Miss G.

#65  Shout ‘Drinks Are on Me!’ in a Pub or Bar (#17 on the 40/40 list): Moved to next year.

#68 Save Someone’s Life (#8 on the 40/40 list): I was on pace with 3 pints donated so far for the year. (I’ve donated 7 total pints for lifetime). But then I started reading articles about how donating blood builds up scar tissue and makes it difficult for you to potentially get IVs and things you may need later in life. I don’t know. I need to do some more research on this.

#84 Learn to Ski (#32 on the 40/40 list): COMPLETED!

#93.5 Get Your Name in the Ring of Honor: COMPLETED!

Goals from my 40 Before I’m 40 List:

#1 Be Able to Do a Pull Up: Starting in late October I started working out at the gym with the “assisted pull up” machine. So far my max lift is 90 pounds; only need 50 more. Didn’t accomplish this one but I’m working hard on it for 2013.

#11 Learn to Rock Climb: COMPLETED! I’ve been a few times but would like to go more. Definitely want to go “real” rock climbing next year.

#18 Watch the Top 1,001 Films: About halfway through the year I kinda changed my plans and I’m actually kinda working more on the IMDB Top 250. Of these, I’ve watched a total of 191 (although this list is always changing, which can be frustrating).

#25 Drink All the Beers on the GQ List: Drank 10 of 20 (20 was my goal this year)

#35 Visit all of the NC Breweries: COMPLETED! The original task was to visit 10; I visited 13. This year I have been to: Natty Greene’sBig BossAviatorBull City Burger and BreweryLoneriderRothMysteryWhite Street BrewingCarolina Brewing Co., Red OakNoDa Brewing, Birdsong, and Foothills.

#36 Learn How to Ballroom Dance: COMPLETED-ish! I did take one private dance lesson. I’m supposed to go back for a group lesson and then a “dance social.” But the one private dance lesson showed me I have a long way to go!

#37 Start Using Coupons: I’m kinda halfheartedly doing this. Baby steps.

#38 See a Movie in a Drive-In Movie Theater: COMPLETED!

From the Sports List:

#18 Attend a rugby game (and learn the rules): FAIL! I missed the opportunities this year.

#19 Attend a cricket game (and learn the rules): FAIL! I missed the opportunities this year.

#24 Attend the Kentucky Derby: This didn’t happen this year. No worries!

One of my favorite things to do is to take advantage of opportunities as they come up, even if they aren’t on the list! After all, the true spirit of the list is to get you out of your comfort zone. So far this year I have also:

  • I attended two Roller Derby Matches 
  • I visited Natural Bridge
  • I went Indoor Skydiving
  • I went to a concert by myself (twice. I went to see Dave Matthews in December and it was truly wonderful. I’m definitely going to concerts by myself from now on).
  • I did most of the Warrior Dash
  • I went camping for the first time, climbed Grandfather Mountain, and managed to cross off Thing to Do #37: Make a Fire Without Matches (I went camping again at the beach in August and started a fire even more quickly and efficiently so I can actually say the first time wasn’t a fluke!)
  • I went Zorbing
  • I went to Bonnaroo
  • I made beer (three times; the first and third time was pretty great, the second time was a bit of fail but that’s what you get when you drink whilst making beer!)
  • I went to Niagara Falls and went into Canadia for the first time! (Adding to my work on #36: Visit Every Country)
  • I raised $1,000 and rappelled down the side of the building at the “Over the Edge” event.
  • I got colorful at The Color Run
  • You know when you look on a map and see that pointy part of NC that juts out into the ocean? I went to that exact point of Cape Hatteras and watched the waves crash together. Rather cool. Still haven’t been to the top of the lighthouse though.

In my personal life:

There have been so many successes that aren’t even on the list, and in many ways I feel this has been the most successful year of my life. Professionally I continue to be satisfied and challenged by my work; a promotion in July brought a bit more stress and work load but I’ve enjoyed the new challenges.

Personally, I’ve discovered a lot about myself this year. It’s been a great time for self-reflection and looking inward. I’m still trying to work on some things but overall I feel better about having figured some things out.

Also in the personal realm, I’ve continued to keep the weight off from last year. I no longer diet; I rather eat what I want. But I do continue to attend Zumba 3 times a week. Through Zumba I’m still the same weight (anywhere from 139-143), but I’ve actually lost another dress size. At my biggest in April 2011 I weighed 164 and was a size 10; although I’m still 10 pounds more than what I was in college, I’m the smallest size I’ve ever been at size 4 (in college I was a size 8). Next year’s goals will hopefully see me finally do a pull up.

Financially I guess we could always wish for a little more but through contract work and my day job, I’ve managed to continue to maintain the lifestyle I want while being single. I became a landlord this year and that’s actually going well so I’m pleased with that decision and I have little by little been able to rebuild my wardrobe through Goodwill purchases and consignment shops.

Overall I guess I would say 2012 was somewhat quiet and subdued; not quite the like the year I had in 2010! But if we gauge our success not in trips and adventures but in happiness and security, I’d easily say 2012 was by far my most successful year yet.

How was your 2012? What are you looking forward to for 2013?

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Thing to Do #80: Spend Christmas on the Beach

So this may end up being one of the things on the list that I’ll never do.  I like my family and its important to me that I be with them at Christmas.  If I went to some resort, I think I would just be sad that I wasn’t with the ones that I love and I know my family wouldn’t travel with me (my parents don’t fly).  I guess we could just go to the North Carolina beach, but I feel like that probably wasn’t the point.  However, I recognize that I may be in the minority in that an awful lot of people seem to not like their families.

Has anyone else spent Christmas on some warm beach?  Makes me think of that Corona commercial…

American Falls

2012 Third Quarter Report

Although I feel like I haven’t done that much this year, I really have made good progress on my original list. There’s never been a year where I accomplished every single goal I laid out for myself but that’s no bother because inevitably I also manage to do lots of things NOT on the list too!

My Goals for 2012:

#8 Sell a piece of art (and realize my childhood dream, which is #28 on the 40/40 list): Nothing on this one yet. I PROMISE I’m doing this one this year.

#46 Scuba Diving: COMPLETED! Went to the Rock Quarry in July to keep up with my SCUBA skillz. Was relieved and proud to say that I actually remembered how to do it. As long as I keep going regularly, hopefully I won’t forget.

#52 Read the Greatest Books Ever Written (#7 on the 40/40 list): I’m failing at reading on the list, but I’ve been tearing it up in regard to books I want to read. Which, after years of reading books I’m supposed to read, has been really nice. Total for the year includes: the newest Sookie book, Dexter is Delicious, The Hunger Games, The Help, The Children of Men, Fight Club, Abraham Lincoln: Vampire Hunter, Catching Fire, Mockingjay, and Wicked.

#65  Shout ‘Drinks Are on Me!’ in a Pub or Bar (#17 on the 40/40 list): Ok. I’ve got my bar picked out and I know the perfect time to do it. And I’ve had news big enough to do it (Hel-lo promotion!) so really no good excuse on this one.

#68 Save Someone’s Life (#8 on the 40/40 list): I was on pace with 3 pints donated so far for the year. (I’ve donated 7 total pints for lifetime). But then I started reading articles about how donating blood builds up scar tissue and makes it difficult for you to potentially get IVs and things you may need later in life. I don’t know. I need to do some more research on this.

#84 Learn to Ski (#32 on the 40/40 list): COMPLETED!

#93.5 Get Your Name in the Ring of Honor: COMPLETED!

Goals from my 40 Before I’m 40 List:

#1 Be Able to Do a Pull Up: My sporadic rock climbing has not helped with this so I think I may need to step it up at the gym or something.

#11 Learn to Rock Climb: COMPLETED! I’ve been going about once a month or so.

#18 Watch the Top 1,001 Films: Have watched 3 of 100. But halfway through the year I kinda changed my plans and I’m actually kinda working more on the IMDB Top 250. Of these, I’ve watched a total of 191 (although this list is always changing, which can be frustrating).

#25 Drink All the Beers on the GQ List: Have drank 8 of 20 (20 was my goal this year)

#35 Visit all of the NC Breweries: Have visited Natty Greene’s , Big Boss, Aviator, Bull City Burger and Brewery, Lonerider, Roth and Mystery. 3 more to go for the year.

#36 Learn How to Ballroom Dance: COMPLETED-ish! I did take one private dance lesson. I’m supposed to go back for a group lesson and then a “dance social.” But the one private dance lesson showed me I have a long way to go!

#37 Start Using Coupons: I’m kinda halfheartedly doing this. Baby steps.

#38 See a Movie in a Drive-In Movie Theater: COMPLETED!

From the Sports List:

#18 Attend a rugby game (and learn the rules): FAIL! I missed the opportunities this year.

#19 Attend a cricket game (and learn the rules): FAIL! I missed the opportunities this year.

#24 Attend the Kentucky Derby: This didn’t happen this year. No worries!

One of my favorite things to do is to take advantage of opportunities as they come up, even if they aren’t on the list! After all, the true spirit of the list is to get you out of your comfort zone. So far this year I have also:

Coming Up:

  • I’ve never done “hoity-toity” afternoon tea so I hope to do that sometime.
  • I’ve reached my goal for raising $1,000 for the “Over the Edge” event. So I’m doing that next weekend (October 6th); Stay tuned for details of that adventure!
  • I’ve registered for The Color Run in Charlotte, November 17th

In my personal life: from the promotion I got in July, I’ve been working just a little bit more, as well as I continue to copyedit dissertations most nights at home. Thing to do #30 on my 40 before I’m 40 list was to begin bringing in money through contract work. Originally that was meant to be that I was writing grants but just in editing this year I will be close to making $10,000. I think that’s pretty considerable and maybe enough to check that item off the list.

Between my day job and my side job and still making time for family and friends (as well as religiously attending Zumba 3 times a week), my blog has continued to suffer. In addition, I haven’t been visiting YOUR blogs either, which makes me sad. I hope you are all doing well and I hope to catch up with you soon!

Also, I feel like I’ve focused a lot more on things I’ve been putting off that aren’t necessarily on the list. Even simple things like reading books or catching up on television shows have been wonderful luxuries I feel I’ve denied myself for the last few years.

How are you doing with your goals for 2012 thus far?

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2012 Second Quarter Report

I’m sorry for not being around more lately but…honestly? I’ve just not been feeling it. After blogging pretty regularly for 3 years, I guess I’m a bit burnt out. Between that and traveling a good bit and getting a promotion at my job (yay!) and working furiously copyediting dissertations, I just haven’t had the energy. And I guess it kinda means I haven’t had the energy to DO stuff on the list either. Not to worry – I’m still doing a bit. Updates below.

My Goals for 2012:

#8 Sell a piece of art (and realize my childhood dream, which is #28 on the 40/40 list): Nothing on this one yet. I PROMISE I’m doing this one this year.

#46 Scuba Diving: Gonna head to the Rock Quarry in August.

#52 Read the Greatest Books Ever Written (#7 on the 40/40 list): I’m failing at reading on the list, although I’ve read a good amount of books I want to read including: the newest Sookie book, Dexter is Delicious, The Hunger Games, and The Help. Currently reading The Children of Men.

#65  Shout ‘Drinks Are on Me!’ in a Pub or Bar (#17 on the 40/40 list): Ok. I’ve got my bar picked out and I know the perfect time to do it. And I’ve had news big enough to do it (Hel-lo promotion!) so really no good excuse on this one.

#68 Save Someone’s Life (#8 on the 40/40 list): I’m on pace with 3 pints donated so far for the year. 3 more to go for the year. (I’ve donate 7 total pints for lifetime)

#84 Learn to Ski (#32 on the 40/40 list): COMPLETED!

#93.5 Get Your Name in the Ring of Honor: COMPLETED!

Goals from my 40 Before I’m 40 List:

#1 Be Able to Do a Pull Up: Hopefully rock climbing will help with this.

#11 Learn to Rock Climb: COMPLETED!

#18 Watch the Top 1,001 Films: Have watched 3 of 100. I’m actually kinda working more on the IMDB Top 250. Of these, I’ve watched a total of 182 (although this list is always changing, which can be frustrating)

#25 Drink All the Beers on the GQ List: Have drank 8 of 20 (20 was my goal this year)

#35 Visit all of the NC Breweries: Have visited Natty Greene’s , Big Boss, and Aviator. 7 more to go for the year.

#36 Learn How to Ballroom Dance: I did take one private dance lesson. I’m supposed to go back for a group lesson and then a “dance social.” But the one private dance lesson showed me I have a long way to go!

#37 Start Using Coupons: I’m kinda halfheartedly doing this. Baby steps.

#38 See a Movie in a Drive-In Movie Theater: COMPLETED!

From the Sports List:

#18 Attend a rugby game (and learn the rules): I think I missed the opportunities this year.

#19 Attend a cricket game (and learn the rules): I think I missed the opportunities this year.

#24 Attend the Kentucky Derby: This isn’t happening this year. No worries!

So far this year I have also:

Coming Up:

  • I’m going to try my hand at brewing my own beer.
  • I’ve never done “hoity-toity” afternoon tea so I hope to do that sometime.
  • Thinking about trying out hang gliding at Kitty Hawk in the fall.
  • I’ve signed up for the “Over the Edge” event for October 6th. (If you haven’t contributed to my goal of raising $1,000 yet, please consider it. Even $10 helps!)
  • I’ve registered for The Color Run in Charlotte, November 17th

In my personal life: I got a promotion with a company I continue to love, went to my 10 year college reunion, moved to the big city of Raleigh and became a landlord. I also continue to keep the weight off I lost last year, actually losing just a bit more, taking me down to 30 pounds lost total.

This year may not be one of the most visibly exciting years of my life, but its been one of the most satisfying and truly I am the happiest I’ve been in a long while.

How are you doing with your goals for 2012 thus far?

Raleigh Skyline from the Raleigh Amphitheater

What’s New, Pussycat?

Just because I haven’t been around for the last two months doesn’t mean I haven’t been busy – Forgive me but this is going to be a marathon blog post! So…what’s new?

  • I’m now a landlord!

It was a huge deal for me to be able to buy a house at age 25 and I’ve spoken several times about how much I love my little house. But I knew I wouldn’t be there forever and when the time came, I had always planned on renting it out. I’m now living IN Raleigh, just a few minutes from Downtown and I’m loving being close to work. Plus, this is the first time I’ve lived in the “big city” so that’s been a blast too.

  • Go to a concert alone

    CAKE concert at the Raleigh Amphitheater

I’ve never had a problem doing things alone. In fact, I often prefer it. I’ve never thought twice about going out to eat or going to the movies alone. I definitely prefer shopping alone. When it was announced that CAKE was coming to the Raleigh Amphitheater, I wanted to go but didn’t really know anyone else that wanted to. I didn’t know how I’d feel about going to a concert alone but it shouldn’t have surprised me when I found it to be one of the best concert experiences I’ve ever had. I arrived when I wanted to, went to the restroom when I wanted to, and left when I wanted to; I wasn’t beholden to the group’s majority vote. And the concert wasn’t sold out so I was able to sit down for much of the concert, spread out and sit back and enjoy the music of my high school years.

I’ve done little day trips by myself but now I think I’ll have to see if I can travel alone, especially internationally!

  • Visit Every NC Brewery: Big Boss

I’ve had Big Boss beers and really enjoy them. The brewery was a bit like a frat house but a cool little chill place for hanging with friends and drinking some beers. Pretty much what you want in a brewery. Seven more breweries to visit for the year.

  • Donate Blood

I’m on pace with 3 pints donated so far for the year. 3 more to go for the year. (I’ve donated 7 total pints for lifetime).

  • 40 before 40 List: #38 See a Movie in a Drive-In Movie Theater: Completed

I took advantage of The Avengers making its way to the nearby drive in.  Unfortunately, I was disappointed with my experience. After being spoiled with high-definition everything, there isn’t much to write home about in regards to the picture quality.

I’m sure back when everyone drove cars, a drive in would be the way to go. Nowadays everyone has an SUV or a mini-van and although there were signs and announcements to the contrary, every one of the behemoths kept their back hatch open, effectively blocking part of the screen. I drove into 3 different parking spots until finally finding one behind a Honda Pilot that only blocked the bottom right fifth of the screen.

Within these SUVs and mini-vans, numerous children tumbled out and quickly dispersed around the area, continuing to run, jump and yell throughout the movie like I was on the set of Lord of the Flies. Since the movie’s sound came through on a radio station rather than a little box that you attached to your window, and the fact that the night was quite cool, I was able to roll up my windows, which blocked much of this noise and distraction.

What it didn’t block was the constant flashing lights of people’s cars as they opened doors, locked doors, started cars, and turned cars off. There are so many flashing lights, beeps, and honks when you do anything to a car these days, there’s really no way to avoid this but it doesn’t make it less annoying.

So I was glad to have had the experience of a drive in movie…if only to know I never need to go back.

  • Warrior Dash #2

I enjoyed the Warrior Dash so much last August, I signed up to do it again this year. I felt the course was even better this year with many of the obstacles built into the landscape, taking advantage of the natural terrain, rather than simply building structures that could be found anywhere. However, because of the way many of the obstacles were structured, it meant for a lot of waiting and standing still while other participants made their way through.

Unfortunately, as I was heading into the last stretch with just a few obstacles to go, a problem I’ve had since middle school reared its ugly head. You see, I’ve had this undiagnosed heart problem since I was 12 where my heart, with no warning, will begin beating very fast. Like, 220-beats-a-minute-fast. The problem is, it never lasts for longer than a few minutes and by the time I get to a doctor, the EKG looks normal.

For much of my life, this has simply been a nuisance, bothering me no more than a couple times a year. But sometime this spring, despite being in the best shape of my life, it began acting up, happening every couple of weeks and becoming more worrisome. After a lot of hemming and hawing, I finally went to see a cardiologist and got outfitted with my very own heart monitor.

I had been wearing this attractive hunk of plastic and wires for two weeks when the Warrior Dash came around. As I couldn’t get it wet, I had left it in the car and now I was lying on the ground beside the race course having an episode I desperately needed to record. An EMT rushed over and at first all I could think of was finishing the race. However, I soon realized it wasn’t going away and I finally acquiesed to a ride in a gator to the medical tent.

From that point on, it was a blur of stress and worry as I desperately willed my heart to slow down. I had never had an episode in such a public way and with the threat of an ambulance ride to the emergency room, I couldn’t calm down enough. A friend managed to get my monitor from the car and we recorded my heart beat just as the guys with my ambulance arrived (Did I mention I was THIRD in line for an ambulance ride? There was another person with the same issue I had and another that had fallen into the fire and suffered serious burns, not to mention over 75 sprained ankles that had occurred in the first 4 hours of the day). They hooked me up to their super huge monitor, slipped oxygen up my nose, and then it was time to get on the stretcher for my first ever ride in an ambulance. As they were preparing an IV medication to slow my heart rate, I managed to choke while sipping on some water; while coughing and sputtering, I “converted,” making a very tired heart immediately slow down to a normal rhythm.

My cardiologist got the report and called while I was at the hospital, officially diagnosing me with supraventricular tachycardia and immediately calling in a prescription that I may now have to take for the rest of my life. While not what I had in mind for the day, I managed to get something diagnosed that had really begun to interfere with my ability to be active. While I’m not excited about taking medication, if it’s the difference between being able to live life or sit on the sidelines, I’ll do what I need to do!

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So that’s what’s been going on. I still have to tell you about my first ever camping experience and some extensive hiking in the mountains over Memorial Day weekend; there’s some good photos to share AND something got checked off the 101 things to do before you die list! And I have some exciting things happening in the next couple of weeks that are GUARANTEED to provide some memorable experiences…
  jk

What’s new with you?

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2012 First Quarter Report

Well, if there is one thing I’ve learned in my 31 (almost 32) years on this Earth is that you can’t plan life, although I’ve certainly tried! But I’m learning to deal with it. Afterall, the fun is when opportunities come up that you weren’t even expecting.

My Goals for 2012:

#8 Sell a piece of art (and realize my childhood dream, which is #28 on the 40/40 list): Nothing on this one yet. I PROMISE I’m doing this one this year.

#46 Scuba Diving: Gonna head to the Rock Quarry when it gets warmer.

#52 Read the Greatest Books Ever Written (#7 on the 40/40 list): I’m failing at reading in general lately. I’ll do better.

#65  Shout ‘Drinks Are on Me!’ in a Pub or Bar (#17 on the 40/40 list): Ok. I’ve got my bar picked out and I know the perfect time to do it. Now I’m just waiting for news big enough that warrants me shouting in a bar.

#68 Save Someone’s Life (#8 on the 40/40 list): I’m on pace with 2 pints donated so far for the year. 4 more to go for the year. (I’ve donate 6 total pints for lifetime)

#84 Learn to Ski (#32 on the 40/40 list): COMPLETED!

#93.5 Get Your Name in the Ring of Honor: COMPLETED!

Goals from my 40 Before I’m 40 List:

#1 Be Able to Do a Pull Up: Hopefully rock climbing will help with this.

#11 Learn to Rock Climb: COMPLETED!

#18 Watch the Top 1,001 Films: Have watched 3 of 100. I need to pick it up!

#25 Drink All the Beers on the GQ List: Have drank 2 of 20

#35 Visit all of the NC Breweries: Have visited Natty Greene’s and Aviator. 8 more to go for the year.

#36 Learn How to Ballroom Dance: My dance lessons are scheduled for April.

#37 Start Using Coupons: I’m kinda halfheartedly doing this. Baby steps.

#38 See a Movie in a Drive-In Movie Theater: Waiting for it to get warmer

From the Sports List:

#18 Attend a rugby game (and learn the rules): Not yet but opportunites are coming up

#19 Attend a cricket game (and learn the rules): Not yet but opportunites are coming up

#24 Attend the Kentucky Derby: This isn’t happening this year. No worries!

Also:

Coming up:

  • I’m going to try my hand at brewing my own beer.
  • I’ve never done “hoity-toity” afternoon tea so I hope to do that this spring.
  • I’ve got some interesting musical experiences ahead of me in the coming months, including going to a concert by myself…
  • Thinking about trying out hang gliding at Kitty Hawk in the fall.
  • I’ve signed up for the “Over the Edge” event for October 6th.
  • As soon as registration opens, I’m signing up for The Color Run in Charlotte, October 27th

How are you doing with your goals for 2012 thus far? I personally need to read more, watch more films, and drink more beer!

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Getting Back to My Roots

“This is my most special place in the world, Ray. Once a place touches you like this…You feel for it like it was your child. I can’t leave here.” Doc Graham, Field of Dreams

A couple of weeks ago I had the occasion to visit Jones County, NC, the birthplace of both of my parents and where a majority of my extended family still lives. Unfortunately, the reason for my visit was not a happy one but I consciously chose to take the opportunity to visit a few special places so that the trip would not be forever remembered as a sad one.

You see, I feel a very strong, emotional connection to a few places on this planet. I call them my “Sacred Places.” You probably have them too. Like me, they are probably places from your childhood, maybe from high school or college. They are places that mean something to you, where you shared memories with loved ones, where once upon a time you were happy and content. These are places you can’t really show or explain to other people because they won’t have the connection you have; to them it may just be a park bench but to you it means the world.

My house I bought when I was 25 is one of my “Sacred Places” because it will always represent a major milestone of accomplishment for me. To you it may seem like a shabby little bungalow in a small town but to me, it’s a castle, made just for me.

There are places at Hollins that mean a great deal to me (the cemetery, a stone bench in Beale Garden, among others). Growing up in Johnston County I spent many a day on the Glendale softball field. Camp Mary Atkinson. The Bethany Community Building. The pond behind our house.

My parents, my brother, and I moved 2 hours east of Jones County when I was 5, so over the years we have spent many hours burning up Highway 70 to visit family for holidays. One place that I was enamored with from an early age was an old mill in Trenton, complete with Spanish Moss. I had only peered at it from a car window heretofore but after 28 years of just passing by, I decided to stop and actually take photos with this visit.

I stayed overnight in nearby New Bern, staying on the waterfront where the Neuse and Trent Rivers merge. When we lived in Jones County, this was where my mother ran her errands and I remember looking at the river as a child. Even more significant, my father proposed to my mother here and that always cast a magical glow on the riverfront.

Unfortunately I didn’t take any photos of the riverfront, although I did walk around downtown and snap this photo. Betcha didn’t even know New Bern was the birthplace of Pepsi, didya?

Finally on my list of places to visit was Catfish Lake, a lake found in Croatan National Forest. Where we lived in Jones County was right on the edge of this forest – less than a mile down the road the pavement turned to gravel and one could seemingly drive forever into the wilderness. Growing up, a favorite summertime activity was taking an evening drive into the forest, looking for deer or other wild game, and sometimes driving to look at the lake. When I was young, this lake was as big as the sea; it’s funny how things seemed bigger when you were a child.

So what does this have to do with a list about 101 things to do before you die? I guess looking towards the future and making plans often necessitates looking to the past. I’ve spent a lot of time in the last few months thinking about how to move forward. In the end, I’ve decided I have to better understand who I am and I’d never figure that out if I didn’t know where I came from.

 How much thought do you give to your past when thinking about your future?

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Goals for 2012

I’m pretty pleased with what I did in 2011 but that doesn’t mean I’m slowing down any! This won’t be a big year for travel or too much adventure but there are still plenty of things for me to do!

#8 Sell a piece of art (and realize my childhood dream, which is #28 on the 40/40 list)

#46 Scuba Diving: Continue practicing my newfound SCUBA skillz by going to the rock quarry at least once.

#52 Read the Greatest Books Ever Written (#7 on the 40/40 list): I mostly have really long ones left so out of the 10 remaining, I’m going to tackle 4 this year. As ONE of these things to read is the ENTIRE works of Shakespeare, I also want to see 2 plays performed live.

#65  Shout ‘Drinks Are on Me!’ in a Pub or Bar (#17 on the 40/40 list): I’m waiting to go my bar on a Tuesday afternoon at 3pm. I can swing buying drinks for 5 people.

#68 Save Someone’s Life (#8 on the 40/40 list): Donate 6 pints I’ve gone back and forth on this. I know they say donating blood can help save someone’s life but I guess I feel like I can’t be sure if MY blood actually saved somoene’s life. But most people seem to think this counts so let’s compromise. If I donate 5 gallons (which is 40 pints and the quickest I’d be able to accomplish that is 7 years), then can we say the likelihood of ONE of those 40 pints actually saved somebody’s life?

#84 Learn to Ski (#32 on the 40/40 list): As a hold over from the original list I had in high school, it’s high time I did something about this one.

#93.5 Get Your Name in the Ring of Honor:  I completed this goal in 2011 but I’ll have my plate unveiling this year.

Goals from my 40 Before I’m 40 List:

#1 Be Able to Do a Pull Up

#11 Learn to Rock Climb: Already have the Groupon in hand to make this happen!

#18 Watch the Top 1,001 Films: Watch 100 this year

#25 Drink All the Beers on the GQ List: Drink 20

#35 Visit all of the NC Breweries: Visit 10 this year

#36 Learn How to Ballroom Dance: Have the Groupon in hand to do this one as well! I think I’m going to try Salsa!

#37 Start Using Coupons

#38 See a Movie in a Drive-In Movie Theater: I’m putting a stipulation on this one. If they simply insist on showing family movies I’m not interested in, I’m not going to force myself to sit through some animated drivel just to check this one off. I think it would be super fantastic if they showed something like Star Wars. Could you imagine seeing that outside at a drive in movie theater? You’d really feel like you were in space!

From the Sports List:

#18 Attend a rugby game (and learn the rules): There are actually some local teams

#19 Attend a cricket game (and learn the rules): There’s actually a local league!

#24 Attend the Kentucky Derby: There is SOME talk about going this year with my good friend Jessica so hopefully this is happening this year.

Also, not officially on any lists but I’m hoping they do the “Over the Edge” event this year so that I can repel down the side of a building and I have also never been to a tea room and I want to try that out.

Think that’s enough? What’s on YOUR goals for 2012?

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